Caroline Hutchins, an ex-Nollywood actress, has opened out about her divorce from rich spouse Musa Danjuma.
In an Instagram post, the mother of three stated that her divorce from Mr. Danjuma made her feel like a failure.
She blamed herself for not having a flawless marriage and for the faults they both made in their marriage, according to her.
She stated that she began to recover and realized that she was not a failure simply because her marriage collapsed.
She noted that people are sometimes better off as friends than lovers. When going through a divorce, the actress also stressed the need of contacting a competent counselor.
She encouraged divorcees to destroy whatever hatred they may have for their ex-partners since it will only damage them.
‘‘I blamed myself for not making a perfect marriage , I blamed my self for both faults of ours until I started healing then I knew I was not a failure .
I prayed to God for assistance most importantly to forgive my self and him.
Rather than hate the outcome of what was , I chose love and peace of mind for what is . We both ain’t perfect and that is what makes us human . I dealt with the hurtful words from friends and strangers , the stigma and constant mockery without knowledge of what truly happened .
God whispered I am with you and that was it . My journey to finding me began and I never looked back . I came , I saw , I conquered , most importantly I have found my lost identity .
Healed , restored , unprovoked, loving and blessed ..#howcarolynagothergrooveback.. thanks to @lanreolusola who spoke through the words in the Bible to help me find my way .
Some of us are better off as friends than lovers . It is ok to see a professional counselor , you ain’t mad you just need clarification . It is ok to fail and rise again . Let God lead you . No hate but love always . Accept your faults forgive the other and move on in peace.
This is my first time talking about my divorce , not an easy journey ,most times very painful moments especially if you are a perfectionist and kids are involved . Kill the hate it will only ruin you . If you are wondering how you will pick up financially trust me you will ,just stay focused and determined . Love without regrets.”